What a choice..

Today I was just thinking about a thing..

You know it is xmas time, and it is also time of asking to our parents some presents!
I don't wanna talk about the presents I want actually, nor about Christmas, but we'll take my xmas-list to make a weird comparison I thought about.

There are two main things I wish to have this year: an I-pad and a Blackberry :)
the thing I wanted the most is, of course, the I-pad, but I surfed on the internet, and found out that, while the Blackberry isnt that expensive, the I-pad is.. So maybe it was better if I avoided asking it.

Now I have three options: the first, asking my I-pad the same.. but it isn't a real possibility, since i can't have it at all, at least not now. The second one, buying a blackberry. the last one, nothing of them, just save the money for the i-pad.

Now you would say: why renouncing to the blackberry? at the end you like it.

Now let's compare it with boys. You have two boys: one of them is the boy you've always liked, and even loved, but you can't have him for whatever reason. Or at least not now.
and then there is another one, you like him a lot but not as much as the other one, and you know you would think about the first one the same. Now what to do?
The possibilities are also in this case three: First one, trying to take the first, amazing boy, but you know you can't, or at least not now. The second, stay with the second one, because you like him, so why loosing him?! The third, no one of them, because you want to wait for the first one.

My speech is a bit weird, but so right.
What to do?! Should we take what we can have or "save money", or time, to wait for the perfect one to come?!

Being or not being, that's the question. xD