My boyfriend.

In the last post, I told you that I would have talked of my boyfriend soon.. So, here I am! :)

My boyfriend and I met in a very particular period, it was the winter of 2008, and I was completely lost in a weird story, one of those stories which can't have a future.. I was completely sure of that, but I kept hoping.

The boy I kept loving for 2 years, and I loved in that moment (I mean, the one of the weird story :P haha) was a Dutch guy. We had met eachother on holiday, and by that time I was completely in love with him.

I met my boyfriend in my village, in one of those few days he used to return back home in those years.. In fact, my boyfriend had just started being a soldier, and in that period he was never at home. I met him thanks to a girl that I really don't like anymore, but I have to be grateful to her.

We talked a lot, I found him very nice and funny, but the main thing which caught my attention was that he had a Dutch girlfriend! And guess what, she lived right near my dream guy.. Weird, wasn't it?! ;)

After having met him, I really didn't think of him, we talked sometimes on fb, but nothing much.. :)

Until last November.

It happened one day that he contacted me on fb, as it had already happened before, but that time it was different. He wanted to tell me that he finally left his ex girlfriend, the Dutch one.

I can say finally because he should have left her years ago, or better, he should have never got with her! But still, when you're in love you can stand anything sometimes, but he probably got really tired at the end.

We talked a lot, and we kept talking for 2 weeks, until he asked me out.

I accepted, I was quite sure, or maybe completely sure he was after me, but maybe in some parts of my heart I already liked him.. That's why we went out.

Usually, when I went out with someone, I used to be very very worried, and excited, but it didn't happen that time. I was so tranquil, it was like I was going to go out with a simple friend, and that's how I considered him. Even if I didn't really thought of him as a potential bf, I had already figured out that he was special, one of those few people you meet in your life, those who still look into yourself. That's why I went out with him, I guess.

As I saw him, and started talking with him, I really felt he was different from the others. His way of talking, and of making me laugh was something I'd never felt.

He brought with him the book he had written some months before, and he showed it to me. While he did it, I felt like he was amazing, but not as he was outside of course, but his way of gesturing, every of us in Italy, but especially in the south of Italy gestures, but his way of doing it was funny, and his way of talking, his way of being so sincere.

We kissed eachother that day, and since that cloudy day of November we have started loving eachothers every day more, and now I don't know how I could live without him.. I don't remember anymore how my life was before knowing him, of course sometimes I remember of some moments I lived in those times, but I forgot the everyday... I'm sure those weren't as beautiful as now :)

I'm very proud of him, because he did everything he wanted on his own, and he is one of the best, and he keeps always doing what he wants, and fights to have what he really wants with his own strenghts.. I coulnd't wish to have a sweeter, funnier, more lovely man by my side.

My bestfriend, he is the one I tell everything to. I really don't know how I could ever live without him anymore.

And I pray he'll always stay.

xxx

Summer time!

Hi thre guys.. It's finally summer time!

That's a bit I'm not talking ;) But I really felt like doing it now.

Summer has just started, in reality it started today, but here in Italy it has been sunny and hot for a couple of weeks now :D And this makes me feel so happy! You must know that when it is sunny, it's like I'm sunny inside aswell, and this is amazing! :D

Summer is amazing first of all because we hope that the weather is gonna be as good as it is in these days.. secondly, school is finally over! :)

Another very beautiful side of the summer of course are holidays.. I just wanted to say that tomorrow I'm going FOR THE FIRST TIME (and that's crazy, since I live here since I was born) at the pool of my village... Never been there, but I'm sure my bro, my cousin and I are going to have great fun tomorrow :)

And I'm also going to leave soon! :D I'm looking forward to it, even if the place I'm going to is not THAT COOL, but you know, it's still holiday. Sun, sea, doing nothing all day, that's what I need! Deffo :D The very great thing is that my boyfriend is going to come there every weekend, or at least almost every weekend.. :)

Oh, I've never told about my amazing bf! :D I'm gonna do it soon ;)

Well, what else to say.. The girl with the pink suitcases is looking forward to using her suitcases again.. And she's gonna do it very soon! :D

Love xxx Me.

What a choice..

Today I was just thinking about a thing..

You know it is xmas time, and it is also time of asking to our parents some presents!
I don't wanna talk about the presents I want actually, nor about Christmas, but we'll take my xmas-list to make a weird comparison I thought about.

There are two main things I wish to have this year: an I-pad and a Blackberry :)
the thing I wanted the most is, of course, the I-pad, but I surfed on the internet, and found out that, while the Blackberry isnt that expensive, the I-pad is.. So maybe it was better if I avoided asking it.

Now I have three options: the first, asking my I-pad the same.. but it isn't a real possibility, since i can't have it at all, at least not now. The second one, buying a blackberry. the last one, nothing of them, just save the money for the i-pad.

Now you would say: why renouncing to the blackberry? at the end you like it.

Now let's compare it with boys. You have two boys: one of them is the boy you've always liked, and even loved, but you can't have him for whatever reason. Or at least not now.
and then there is another one, you like him a lot but not as much as the other one, and you know you would think about the first one the same. Now what to do?
The possibilities are also in this case three: First one, trying to take the first, amazing boy, but you know you can't, or at least not now. The second, stay with the second one, because you like him, so why loosing him?! The third, no one of them, because you want to wait for the first one.

My speech is a bit weird, but so right.
What to do?! Should we take what we can have or "save money", or time, to wait for the perfect one to come?!

Being or not being, that's the question. xD

Trips.

You're probably asking to yourself why I called my blog "the girl with the pink suitcases".
Well, I do have a pink suitcase, in reality hahaha But that's not for this reason. :) The reality is that I love travelling, and I'm looking forward to doing my next one. :)
if I have this passion is probably because of my parents, who has always brought me wherever they went to, ad it's because of them if I am so excited everytime we go to a new place. I'm never satisfied of travelling. :)

I visited many places, in many countries, but the best place I've ever visited is Rome. You could think I say that because I'm Italian but really, I travelled a lot, and never seen something amazing like Rome.

Every summer my family and I go abroad, but I guess that going abroad with your parents is way different from going abroad alone.
Since I'm still a bit young to have a trip on my own, I found a very great way to do it, going on a language travel every year.

Two years ago I went to Malta. Malta has got very beautiful places, the sea, the golden sand, the discos, you never get bored of it. :) But you must know that in Malta almost everybody speaks Italian, and it doesn't help when your first goal is improving your English.. So I just pretended I wasn't Italian.

So well, even if I had a lot of ways to have fun in Malta, on the second day I was already on my own on a lonely beach crying.. The reality is that people there wasn't that "friendly", but after that day I remembered how much I dreamt studying abroad, so I kept all my strenght and went on :)

But the year after, even if my first experience had been awful, I decided to change place and try again to study abroad: that's how I found myself in Oxford.

My Oxford experience has been great, absolutely the best holiday ever. There I had the chance of studying as I wished to do, and at the same time I had the possibility of making a lot of friends!
I don't know why, but I loved Oxford from the first time I saw it. It's way different to our italian cities, and that's maybe the reason why it caught my attention that much.. or probably because I have a lot of good memories of that place. :)

Next summer I'm hopefully going to spend a great month in Oxford again.. And I'm looking forward to it :D

you'll know more about it if you keep reading my blog ;)

Kisses xxx

Hi there everyone!

Hi there :) And welcome to my new blog!

This is the first post I write on this blog, and I'm so excited! :)

This blog was born because I want to share all my feelings and experiences with all of you, no matter who you are, where you are from or which size of shoes you wear :)

There isn't much to tell about me, I'm just a girl who desires living life as good as possible, without any regret, facing everything, problems, pains and beautiful moments with all the people she loves.

I hope you'll follow me. :)

xoxo

Serena.